Description

A poetic memoir and performance-driven collection, this book traces a Black queer coming-of-age in New York City as the AIDS era reshapes love, art, and survival. Moving between personal essays and lyric poems, it follows the collision of joy and grief—how mourning, violence, and political urgency become fuel for language, witness, and creative transformation. With themes that braid LGBTQ+ rights, police brutality, and the enduring bonds between the living, the dying, and the dead, the work also turns to later reflections on pandemic life and its unequal toll. Written in a genre-defying voice that feels alive on the page, it renews the legacy of writers like Baldwin, Morrison, and Audre Lorde through fierce wit, intimacy, and risk.

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City Lights Books

Published Oct 20, 2020

128 pages

ISBN: 9780872868137

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@gxuosiJul 3, 2026

at no fault of the author, this book was not what i expected it to be (my library app listed it as poetry and while pamela sneed is a poet, this was more or less essays). so i got off on the wrong foot with this one and never quite recovered. at the core of everything was a deeply important story about the aids epidemic and the failure on many levels to save people thus creating the fall out that sneed lived and her involvement in that grief. i'm thankful that she shared so much of herself with us.<br/><br/>however, mixed in between this critical dialogue was a discussion on racism, politics, pop culture that never felt fleshed out. she analyzes <i>king kong's</i> racist roots, <i>the hunger games</i> and <i>parable of the sower</i> as today, the impact on african tourism at the hands of the mini-series <i>roots</i> and marvel's <i>the black panther,</i> cbs hit tv series <i>survivor</i> for its lack of surviving, beyoncé as an exploitive business model, princess diana as a beloved face of a colonial empire, <i>planet of the apes</i> as a refusal to "go back where you came from." it felt like an endless take down of pop culture for the sake of naming as many thing as possible. especially so when her essay <i>history</i> is built off summarizing the plots of other books and films and doing little to create a purposeful connective thread.

Details

First Published

2020

Language

eng

Content Warnings

Content and trigger warnings for Funeral Diva by Pamela Sneed.

Death/Grief
War/Trauma
Sexual Violence
Racism/Discrimination
AIDS/Illness-Related Content